A great threesome can be an unforgettable experience, but if you mess it up, it has the potential to totally wreck your relationship. It is definitely a good idea to know how to play this game. Here I provide 3 tips to establish a powerful, beautiful threesome.
Before we get started, there are some important things to share with you. A threesome is a bit like a unicorn: super hard to find, very unique and breathtaking. If you do it right, a threesome can take you on a spiritual path of its’ own and expand your horizons. However, it also requires sensitivity and mindfulness. A threesome can take on all kinds of shape and forms. It can happen in three women, one man and two women, two men and one woman, and three men. The most important thing is to stay open. Sexual energy sparks life force, productivity and creativity. In today's aristocratic circles, this kind of lovemaking is used to manifest goals. Some also call it sex magic. It is super powerful.
The right mindset
It might sound silly, but if you are in a relationship and you want a threesome get crystal clear. Why you want it? The best way to do this is to sit down and get still. Stillness has the power to push up what is true for you. If there is any unaddressed issue in your relationship, it really not a good idea to solve it by throwing in another buddy or a puppy. If you do it anyway, chances are pretty high that your problems as a couple will come up during a threesome. That could be a bit awkward to say the least. Therefore, make sure the bond with your partner is secure. There is no fear of losing each other and you two are on the same wavelength.
Set boundaries and rules
Boundaries may not sound fun, but they can be quite life-saving. Talk about what is on and off the table. Is kissing okay? Is intercourse okay? Talk with each other. If there is anything really important, let the unicorn know as well. Overall be sure you stay in integrity and honor your primary partner's feelings in the right way. Also, respect the feelings of the unicorn. When in doubt, ask. Try not do things you might regret later.
Find the right unicorn
The major way to screw up a threesome is by doing it with the wrong people. Finding the right third wheel is probably the hardest part of having a threesome. Some people even call it "unicorn", because it is so rare to find. To make it easier for you is the most important quality in the threesome unicorn. First, both of you have to be attracted to it. Second, it must be attracted to both of you. Third, it must be willing to do this with no strings attached. Forth, it must be sane enough to not wreck your relationship.